Is the public more sympathetic to Elin because....?

the problem with your question is in uming that all men are programed the same way,and we are not.i firmly believe that with a mature relationship comes Honest conversations.i know for me that my family,my wife and my kids are the most important thing for me and i will not do anything to jeopardize this,and i also feel that their are a lot of men who feel the same way.it just comes out that when one man cheats all men cheat.if i cant look at my kids and tell them to be a good person without myself subscribing to the same principle then why did i have a family.